Allen's Adventures

Hey, Allen - - - I am behind in reading blogs - - ...

2012-02-14T22:46:29.882-05:00

Hey, Allen - - - I am behind in reading blogs - - just saw this.

Your friends don't hate you. You seem like a really sweet person with a gentle nature and considerate of others. Don't let people who don't have those qualities change your personality. You seem like the type of person who looks first for the good in others - - - I pray there are enough of those 'good

That surely tells it like it is. Why would people ...

2012-02-14T16:47:17.509-05:00

That surely tells it like it is. Why would people "choose" to be gay and put themselves through all the pain and suffering of prejudice, possible life endangerment, etc? From what I understand, it is a struggle within to understand, for instance, why as a boy growing up, he isn't attracted to girls, but yet he thinks of his friend on his baseball team.

But if we were all

What a story! Who knows why people do the things t...

2012-02-09T11:50:02.817-05:00

What a story! Who knows why people do the things they do. But you shouldn't blame yourself. You were a GOOD friend to Richard. He was dealing with his own demons - silently. I am sorry for your loss.

@ Cubby - He is always in my memories. I miss him ...

2012-02-07T09:52:12.397-05:00

@ Cubby - He is always in my memories. I miss him so much. I miss his smiling face and his personality.

@ Sally - I am sorry to hear that your daughter is going through my pain. If she ever wants to talk just send her my way. =o)

@ izzo - Love your site! And thanks for stopping by mine. The pain is still the same no matter what. It just so sad.

@ John - I hope it

Thanks for sharing your story. Maybe it will save...

2012-02-07T08:36:29.570-05:00

Thanks for sharing your story. Maybe it will save a life, if someone is contemplating suicide. To know that the pain felt by the surviving friends and family is never ending just might make somebody think twice.

I don't think you can ever get over something like that. Life goes on for the surviving friends and family, but it's never the same and you never forget.

Hey Allen, i understand the pain. My best friend k...

2012-02-06T23:05:44.152-05:00

Hey Allen, i understand the pain. My best friend killed himself in May of last year. It was not because he was gay, even though he was, he had an addiction problem, but the pain is still the same...

How sad Allen . My daughter's friend just comm...

2012-02-06T15:57:19.155-05:00

How sad Allen . My daughter's friend just committed suicide last week, how sad for both them . It leaves you feeling so lost and wondering WHY ?

Oh Allen, how painful. I was in tears at the end. ...

2012-02-06T09:47:34.567-05:00

Oh Allen, how painful. I was in tears at the end. The shock and regret of suicide can last for a lifetime but at least Richard lives on in your memories.

Bummer, Allen. . . . I have the same problem with ...

2012-02-03T21:14:01.452-05:00

Bummer, Allen. . . . I have the same problem with my right hand - - - but mine seems to be either arthritis in a joint causing tendon/ligament swelling or I have overused those same t's & l's. Doctor gave me a cortisone shot last time and wanted to again - - - but that is not a cure-all. It might need surgery due to trigger-finger symptoms - - but then it would have arthritis for

Oh man, you're too young to be falling apart. ...

2012-02-03T15:37:50.826-05:00

Oh man, you're too young to be falling apart. Best of luck with the tests.

That's a precious picture and one you will be ...

2012-01-26T23:05:14.813-05:00

That's a precious picture and one you will be glad to have in years to come.

Well, happy, HAPPY Birthday! Sounds like a fun tim...

2012-01-15T10:47:32.031-05:00

Well, happy, HAPPY Birthday! Sounds like a fun time with friends!

YUM!!!! Chocolate on the cake - - steak & tho...

2012-01-14T18:48:40.533-05:00

YUM!!!! Chocolate on the cake - - steak & those veggies. I would have liked that meal and could have celebrated with you because my birthday is MONDAY!!! That's another reason we get along fine cuz we almost share the same birthday. Happy Birthday, Friend.

@ Becky - yeah I read that, pretty good. I did pro...

2012-01-06T11:00:05.072-05:00

@ Becky - yeah I read that, pretty good. I did promise my father I would stop communicating with her. So I wont send it to her.

@ Cubby - I dont know if she will or not. I did ask him the other day if she had, he told me not yet.

What a story. I wonder if Mel will respond to your...

2012-01-06T10:36:07.719-05:00

What a story. I wonder if Mel will respond to your father.

You've seen this blog post, right Allen? Mayb...

2012-01-06T09:29:41.844-05:00

You've seen this blog post, right Allen? Maybe you should forward it to your friend, to give her something to go on...

http://www.danoah.com/2011/11/im-christian-unless-youre-gay.html

Sounds like you had a great time visiting your Dad...

2011-12-31T11:56:36.433-05:00

Sounds like you had a great time visiting your Dad. He looked so happy in the photos.

Funny how you and Kevin just clicked after all these years. This relationship should work....you started out as friends. :)

Have a Happy New Year!

@ mind of mine, It made me a nervous wreck, and fu...

2011-12-26T23:04:54.632-05:00

@ mind of mine, It made me a nervous wreck, and fun at the same time. I kept thinking, if I wreck it, how upset is my father going to be at me. It took me some time to figure out the gears. But once I got that down, it was smooth sailing. =o)

Sounds like you had a really fun weekend. What wa...

2011-12-26T12:13:19.281-05:00

Sounds like you had a really fun weekend.

What was it like driving your Dad's vintage care?

Got this today in two different accounts. Emailed...

2011-10-09T19:16:58.080-04:00

Got this today in two different accounts. Emailed the people who sent it to me so they can take remedial action. Be aware another one going around is from IQ Elite that takes you through a "personality test" then asks you to sign onto your email account.

Hoya

Thanks! I was immediately suspicious when asked f...

2011-10-04T10:17:04.982-04:00

Thanks! I was immediately suspicious when asked for my password so I googled and found this site. It was awful when facebook used my address book ( let's not forget that just because of facebook's popularity). That then enabled someone to start sending me lesbian solicitations from multiple untraceable, unstoppable sources.

Just say no!

okay i am usually pretty good at this but i was co...

2011-09-30T10:27:17.769-04:00

okay i am usually pretty good at this but i was conded. How do i get rid of this

I also realized that my 1st post didn't go thr...

2011-09-22T15:06:40.737-04:00

I also realized that my 1st post didn't go through - This invite definitely puts up red flags.

I received the invite from a very happily married good friend in his 40's and I'm a happily married woman in my 60's...RF #1

They also ask you for your email and logon password up front, as well as personal info
RF #2

I deleted it the 1st time, but

add this to previous 9/22/11 ~12:55 pm post...They...

2011-09-22T15:01:07.235-04:00

add this to previous 9/22/11 ~12:55 pm post...They also ask for your email and password - DO NOT EVER give you email logon password to strangers, or stranger things will happen...

uptowndebbie

REcommendation, change your email password...and m...

2011-09-12T09:56:25.427-04:00

REcommendation, change your email password...and maybe a few others, as well. Wish I would have searched first. Thanks for the info!